THE SIDE CHIC KILLER

Proverbs 6:24 To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman.
6:25 Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
6:26 For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.
6:27 Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?
6:28 Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned?
6:29 So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.
6:30 Men do not despise a thief, if he steal to satisfy his soul when he is hungry;
6:31 But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give all the substance of his house. 6:32 But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

In my side it is common to hear news of women dying because the side madam of their husbands 'killed' them. Some had because of good jealousy, developed stroke or hypertension.
Eeeeeeh, I cry against this act of self destruction and the destruction of others, men stop it for heaven sake. Having side chick has become something most married men do, it is just as if it is culture imbibed by most yet it profited them nothing but the destruction of their own souls. It is fun they say, and the other excuses they may claim. I tell you here, having side chick is not worth it, not for any reason please.
Look at the effect upon you according to the holy scriptures. Know this, God's standard is the right standard, what you think or believe not withstanding. The scriptures condemned it with the effect obviously seen by all.
By adultery a man is reduced to a pieces of bread
The worth of a man is reduced by adultery in all side.
Even his attention for his family is divided and he waste his revenue on other women instead of building his life. Above all his soul is not secure.
He destroy his own soul.
It is against God's will and against the marriage vow.

Proverbs 7:21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
7:22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;
7:23 Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
7:24 Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.
7:25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
7:26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.
7:27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.

Many great men had been slain by adultery and many more are still been slain yet our men seem not to take caution. See the pain and lost that came upon David house for adulter 'Anything in skirt' syndrome is a killer. It will slain you as others. It will also kill the wife of your youth, if care is not taken, some of you don't value them anyway . To get your full attention, the side chick will do all to kill your helper or break your home. Then you begin to play with the destiny of your children, your future security, your joy at the night.

Proverbs 5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
5:19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

Whatever her weakness may be, sort it out with her and help her grow in strength instead of seeking alternative. One thing is this, for your wife you have many 'alternatives', ladies unmarried, widows, many of them but they should never be considered. They may be cheap and free to an extended, but they are against you, not for you,  even if they throw themselves at you. Know to say no, you have a destiny to preserve. The joy in some homes end the moment side chicks come in. The direction of some men's life become loss because of adultery. Some men's destinies are buried under adultery. Look inward, since the time you have started that extra marital relationship, what have become of your true life. It is has not been as it used to be, I assumed. Bodily joy but lost to your souls.
Look at the family you once cherished, you now keep away from them day and night to be within one woman or lady, lying to your wife to cover up. The happiness that was there before has stop. The wife unhappy, the children unhappy. You on your side, have no internal happiness but you keep going to proof unnecessary point. You may say, you give her money, you take care of your children, what else? If only you will stop that act for just six month, observe your life in compare to the side chick life, you will know that,  you had been on the losing side. 
Please our men, consider your ways, flee from adultery, it profited nothing, forget the pleasure you claim, it cost you more. Seek your true life instead of this 'piece of bread' life you live. Let your wives and children know the joy of having you. Give God more place in your life. There is never an adulterous man with full honour.

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