BEING A HUSBAND IS HARD WORK

Ati gbeyawo kotejo owo one losoro.
Note here, this is my pure opinion, it is subjected to change, I want to share it with you men.
    Take it or leave it, being a husband is a hard work. My point here goes to men who like to share responsibilities with their wives because she has a job. It is good for a woman to help, she is your help meet but don't allow her to help you till you are dispensable.
    Do all in Godly means to keep your head position as the husband, it is not automatic. It is hard work, very hard one. When you consciously share the rice and beans with your wife, you share the school fees and even shelter, then you are  saying, you are not man enough. When she feels your dispensability, your strength is beat down. You just command the traditional respect.
   This is not for those who are passing through hard times , those who had lose their job or have a business crashed. I am talking to those who because their wives has a job or business, they do less to sustain the home. There is different between demanding respect and commanding it. If you will live the husband, you will command respect, you demand it when you open the contend.
   It is a very high place God has place men, don't devaluate of. Work hard. To me , it is better to work hard and be the man you should be than to be looking at the hand of by your wife. Even though your wife earn than you, don't look into her purse before  anything. The man you are can ever be made by your wife's purse. Preserve your place
Don't at any time lean on your wife's purse to shoulder same responsibility  with you, give some gap
Husband in my language is, oko, it simply means, someone who is enough for the other. Be to a reasonable extent enough for her.
   Give her to take care of her self. at her purse. Those who look at their wives purse will never rise above limitations.