DESPERATE SINGLES

Marriage is the prayer of the  singles, they want to have the joy of being with the one they love forever till death do them apart. At certain age, the society expect one to marry. If he or she is not. They become head news for gossips. Family begin to ask questions and the single began to get pressured, becoming desperate, and sometimes,wanting a spouse by any means. In this, they make mistakes. They accept who they see, not thoroughly checking if the person have the quality they wanted in a spouse. The bid to just get out of that challenge they are facing covers their sense of reasonings. There they go with those who do not have anything for their future. Note this, be  major decision of one's life should not be made in desperation. Then they fall into a ditch by getting married to who will break their teeth with good punches, some who will starve them or the one that will make them less of human. It is bitter experience for those who have falling a prey of desperation.
       Young ladies, young men, I urge you, when it comes to marriage, don't be desperate. Whether you are fresh single, single mother or divorced, whatever, be calm, by in control of yourself, know what you want and go for it. No matter the pressure. Marriage is a life time thing, a bad one can leave a life time mark, wound not healing. The main reason why you should take your time, even if there are abuses, despise, jest or what people say, is because ones you marry, your lot is joined with who you marry, if it is good, wow!. If it bad, it hurts for life. Your partner has great influence on your, positive or negative. Some had advance by the virtue of who they marry, some have crashed below mediocrity, they are broken, hurting, dying, regretting, their life in pieces before them. A choice made in desperation is a blind choice, it does not end in the best.
    My plead, please, don't be desperate no matter the pressure. Open your eyes and make the choice that make you happy. I have seen some examples around me and I know very sure that it is a wrong thing to do, to marry in desperation. They suffer and pain for it. God is faithful to help you settle well, take your time. Pray to God for guidance and put your senses to use. Take your time please before you say I DO.

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