HELPFUL TIPS: HAVING GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS

To live with others without much headache is hard work. People are of different strengths and weaknesses. Human can be kind, they can be unkind, they can be greedy or generous, they can good lovers and bad haters.
    Everyone needs someone yet sometimes we dread having friends, for what they can do. Human being has the capacity to do just anything his heart can conceive whether good or bad. Well, no matter what, we need others. I will share with you tips on how to have good relationship with  others

Tips

- Study and know the people around you.
Ranging from your spouse to you children to your friends to your colleagues even your employee, have their uniqueness. They are different in attitude, they are different in character, view, belief, background. They have different strength and weakness. The have likes and dislike. Get to know each person and you will know how best to deal with them. Also by knowing the people around you, you will be able to make a choice, to make friend with this person or not.
*You do not need everybody, so choose who suit your life.

- Sow what you want to reap
Whatever you want to be done to you, do it to others. If you want people to be kind to you, be kind to others. If you want them to share with you, share with them. What you put out is  what you get back in attitude and other things.

- Be humble enough to say, sorry when you are wrong.
You cannot always be right, sometimes you act out your selfish self. When you hurt other with this, be kind to say sorry. This will make people regard you more. It will also keep the atmosphere of your relationship healthy.
*Do not keep doing same wrong and keep saying sorry, it is an abuse of sorry.

- Appreciate their good gesture toward you.
Learn to always say, thank you, to those who show you good gesture, who give to you, help you or do what you cannot do for our self for you. Sometimes, it may look as if it is your right but you still need to say, thank you. It goes a long way and sometimes commit one to doing more.

- Look for what to do for them
To keep people, especially good people around you, you must make yourself of value. Do not always look for what to get(parasite), look out for ways to contribute values to their life. It may be a simple word of advice, visit when they are sick, having your shoulder to cry on when hurting. It goes a long way for them. Be more of a blessing to them than a drainer.

- Humility
This is one virtue everyone should desire, it will help any get to a great height. No one wants a proud man as friend. He will ruin their ego and emotion without care.  Be humble, with this you will be able to sustain profitable relationships.

- Correct and praise
Take your time to rebuke the people around you when they go wrong. Don't leave the people to rot because you don't want them to hurt. When they stink, you will share in it. Help them to become better person by telling them truth.
    Also praise them when they do praise Worthy things
* Do not make one feel they are all bad.

- Forgive
Keeping the wrong things others had done to you will deter your relationship with them. Surely people will step on your toes but you must open your spirit to forgive others.
Your best relationship is not the one without offence, it is the one with much forgiveness.

- Show care and love.
Show the people around you care, ask about their well being. Love them as prescribed " Love your neighbor as yourself". Seek the good of others. Remember them in your prayer.

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