EveryCouple: The Two rules

Marriage is ordain by God to better the life of Hunan not to mar it. He saw a need in Adam and he met it by Eve. The purpose of God for marriage has being abuse today, that the coming generation seems to dread the idea of marriage. They have seen either of their parents suffer in the hand of the other, they have heard of the stars they admire molested, they heard and seen the story of friends and foes and it is all discouraging to them. This which do scare they younger one, is bad! Well, the Bible is my standard, I will take clues from it to you. (Eph.5:22-33)

HUSBANDS (1Pet. 3:7, Eph.5:25)
It is written 'Husbands love your wives even as Christ love the church and he gave himself for it' 'So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself'
   Husbands love your wives, deeply and truly as Christ love the church and gave the greatest gift, his life. What a love! To know the character of love, check 1Cor13:4-8. If you love your wife as this, there are so many things you are doing that you will not be doing. Your wife will be a treasure to you and you will ever value her. You will prefer to forgive her when she offends you, (she well surely do) instead of battering her.
   See this 'Ye husbands, dwell with them (wives) according to knowledge, giving honour unto wives as unto weaker vessels...1Pet3:7'
True love is sufficient to keep a home, if you will chose to love your wife. I have heard a man said, 'Men don't love'. I laugh! If a man does not love a woman, he will never know her worth talk less of regarding her besides such a man is missing out. Whosoever have not feel love, has not feel his true self. A man cannot attain his highest without love. No love, no life.
In your love for her comes, taking up all responsibilities that comes with family and marriage.

WIVES (Eph.5:22)
It is written 'Wives submit yourselves to your husbands, as unto the Lord'
Wives submit yourself to your husbands no matter how rich, famous, educated you are. Submit in love as Sarah did unto Abraham. Submit to them in love, do not try to ride them. When you do, you try to kill the men in them and they react, slapping your head to neck.
See this, 1Pet.3:3-6. Let nothing make you a terror to your husbands, he will slap you if he does not love you or have self control. Submit to your husbands in love. You have accepted and chosen him, control your mouth, caution your self, don't be rude, do the right things at the right time. Even is you are more influential, still love him and submit to him.

Note: The submittion of a woman is not foolishness, it is  for order sake, let no one abuse it. Two people cannot head a home. A good man is enough. So husbands, honour your wife, reason with her, when you see a blessed woman as worthless, she grieves and become unhappy, sometimes, showing bad attitude.

Couples, intending couples, young men and women get it right.
Couples love each other. Husbands love your wives, do not abuse the place God has given you as the saviour of your home. Don't threat them as people of no value. Wives submit to your husbands in love. There will be offence, chose to settle all in love not blow or slaps. Beware of third party, be it anybody.
   Intending couples be truthful to each other. Sort out things in love and your marriage be stress free. Understand each other and live in love, other things will fall in place.
   Young men and women, get to know yourself and make the right choice right from the start. Marriage has either positive effect of on ones life or negative, so choose well. Some people who were looked down upon, rose to light by the virtue of marrying a successful man. Some great potential also fell by marrying the wrong ones. Make a choice. To be made or mar. It doesn't matter whether you a man or woman, once you get it wrong, your life might go that way forever.

For all, pray to God to keep your home, give you wisdom of a good husband or wife, pray that he direct you in your marital choice.